New Haven Estate Planning Lawyer: How to Leave Assets to Your Step-Children

February 08, 2018

Blended families are becoming more and more common in modern society, and yet, estate laws remain largely unchanged and are still geared toward a “traditional” family structure.  This poses an issue when it comes to leaving an inheritance to step-children in an estate plan.  Step-children are often not legally adopted by the new spouse, which means they are not considered to be “heirs” for inheritance purposes.  However, a solid estate plan created with a New Haven estate planning lawyer can help you work around Connecticut’s Estate Laws to ensure your step-children are not left out.

The easiest way to leave assets to step-children is to name them in a will or trust. Assets can be left in the form of a percentage of the estate, or by specific assets. If there are other children involved, it is important to avoid confusion by naming each child and step-child using their individual names, rather than terms such as “descendants,” “heirs,” or even “children.”

There are also a number of estate planning tools that can be used to include step-children in an inheritance. If the objective is to avoid probate, a revocable living trust can be established in which a step-child is named as a beneficiary. If a step-child is disabled, it may be necessary to establish a special needs trust to maintain their eligibility for government programs. Lastly, a step-child can also be named as a beneficiary of a life insurance policy or a Pay-On-Death financial account.

While there is no legal obligation to leave step-children an inheritance, many people still want to include them in their estate planning when there’s a close relationship or the step-parent played a significant role in raising the child. Obviously, leaving money to step-children means the amount of assets available to other biological children will be reduced. If you expect that this will cause conflict, it would be helpful to explain these decisions to all family members in advance. By engaging in an open and honest dialogue, you can minimize the potential for family squabbles and the possibility of a will contest. During the conversation you should clarify why you included each beneficiary (including step-children), why you selected the person who will serve as your executor, and your thoughts about the family.

If you want to make sure that your step-children will receive the assets you choose to leave them, you should speak with an experienced New Haven estate planning lawyer. To schedule a consultation at our New Haven law firm, simply call the office at (203) 877-7511.